Parents often worry: “What if my child just plays video games all day?” At Embark Center, we hear this all the time. This post explores why video games aren’t the enemy, what kids are really gaining, and how to reframe the “worst-case scenario” into something far less scary. Most of all, it’s about trust—trusting your child’s curiosity, their growth, and their unique path.

Leaving school can bring unexpected grief. Parents and kids often find themselves mourning more than an institution — they’re letting go of schoolishness, the belief that grades define worth and that belonging comes from doing things “the right way.” This reflection explores the quiet ache of stepping outside the tribe of school, and how families move through loss toward new kinds of connection and growth.

We trust toddlers and adults to learn through curiosity and self-direction — so why not school-age kids? This post explores the school-age paradox, showing how free play, autonomy, and self-directed learning for kids prepare them not just for college and work, but for life itself. Discover why rigid curriculum is a poor predictor of the future — and why trusting children’s natural drive to learn matters more than ever.

When families first join Embark Center, the hardest shift is often letting go of 'doing school.' Deschooling gives kids and parents the space to rebuild trust in curiosity, move beyond measurement, and embrace self-directed learning.

Embark teens help hire staff through a student-led Hiring Circle—reading applications, interviewing, giving tours, and deciding as a community. Michael reflects on progressive ed vs. self-directed education and what it means to trust young people with real responsibility.

One family shares how their 11-year-old regained joy, independence, and even started writing again after joining Embark. With gentle supports and growing separation confidence, mom describes learning to trust the self-directed process.

How Embark uses Nonviolent Communication—observations, feelings, needs, and requests—to resolve conflict with curiosity and compassion, building trust and shared solutions. Includes a sample NVC script and resource links.

A mother describes her teen’s journey with ADHD and autism—from overwhelm in school to ownership, therapy support, and community at Embark—growing into a confident, kind member of the center.

During COVID, a family makes the case for a “gap year” of healing and growth—offering practical paths like volunteering, apprenticeships, certification, community projects, and deep dives—plus reassurance about returning to school if desired.

Start here: a curated list of self-directed education resources—videos, books, articles, podcasts, and organizations—to help families understand and begin.

How Embark kept classes, mentoring, field trips, and community alive online—from D&D and philosophy to speaker series and network classes—while keeping member choice central.

Practical, compassionate tips for sudden homeschoolers—honor free play, set gentle boundaries, connect through family projects, and let boredom spark creativity.

How self-directed education grows adults, too—Kara shares creating the Embark Cultural Outreach Program with a teen, turning shared passion for travel into real-world learning.

What’s it really like to choose self-directed education? Teens and parents share honest stories about independence, community, and family life at Embark. Includes video.